Remember when you said "I do"? How do you keep loving forever?
After 25 years of marriage and counting, I'm ready to reveal my secrets of having a happy marriage and healthy family.
It's not easy, but it can be easier.
Don't just take my word for it....
Dr. Gary Chapman
Author, The 5 Love Languages
This book is not only a delightful read, the simple steps inside can revolutionize your marriage if you put them into practice. Arlene and James have been happily married for more than 25 years and they can show you how to enjoy your marriage too.
Shaunti Feldhahn
Author, For Women Only
If you want to make intimacy easier, communication easier, getting along easier, pick up this book! You'll be reminded of why you got married in the first place.
This book is for you if...
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You're happily or unhappily married
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You've been married 2 months or 50 years
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You're reading this with your spouse or alone
This book is not for you if...
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You don't have a sense of humor
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You're not willing to think about anything new
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You like being stuck in your relationship
Get Your Freebies!
#1. Making Dating Easier
New DATE NIGHT ideas that you can use no matter how much time you have. Get ideas for 15 minute, 30 minute, and 60 minute dates (and yes, you'll find longer dates too!).
#2. Small Group Questions
Meeting in a small group, parenting class, or moms group? You can go through these small group questions together. There is strength in numbers! By the way, there are questions for you and your spouse included in the book after each chapter.
#3. Top Ten Lists
This is a CURIOSITY sparker! Fill out these lists together or separately and then share things like your top ten favorite movies, restaurants, or things you find attractive about your spouse.
How Does Marriage Get Easier?
- Play By the Rules. Pre-decide what you will and won't do. Don't follow feelings; follow the commands of God.
- Give Thanks Every Day. Marriage is about appreciating what and who you have, always giving thanks to God.
- Serve Your Spouse. Ask "What can I do for you?" instead of "What have you done for me?"
- Take Fun Seriously. Be playful again. Laughing and having fun is what brought you together and it will help keep you together.
About the Author
As a teenager, Arlene dreamt of meeting Mr. Wonderful on the way to 5th period. Years later after college graduation, Mr. Wonderful finally showed up. This book is about how they have stayed in love through the decades and how you can too!
Arlene Pellicane is a speaker, host of the Happy Home podcast, spokesperson for National Marriage Week, and author of books like Parents Rising, Screen Kids and 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Wife. She's been featured on the Today Show, Focus on the Family, Fox and Friends, and the Wall Street Journal. Arlene and her husband James have three children and live in San Diego.
What Others Are Saying...
Pam and Bill Farrel
Authors and Co-Directors of Love-Wise
With simple ideas, personal illustrations mixed with biblical wisdom, Arlene hands us the playbook for a winning marriage, a marriage that can become beautiful.
Jim Burns
Author and Founder of HomeWord
I LOVED this book. Arlene is one of my favorite Christian communicators. Do what she suggests, and your marriage load will be lighter, and your relationship will be stronger.
Remi Adeleke
Filmmaker, Author, Former Navy SEAL
This book contains valuable lessons that have not only helped our marriage, but have also helped inform how we parent our children. It's a blessing to know that these same words will now be spoken to you.
Monica Swanson
Podcaster and Author of Boy Mom
It's practical, biblically sound, and laugh-out-loud funny! I feel encouraged and understood after reading it. This is my new go-to gift for newlyweds, milestone anniversaries, and every couple in between.